For parents of an adult 18+ · Free parent questionnaire
You’ve tried pushing harder. What if your family needs a different approach?
You love them, you want them to stand on their own, and every conversation seems to end in the same place. This looks at your support — not at what’s wrong with them.
- A few minutes, self-paced
- Free. No email or account
- Answers stay in your browser
If you’ve found yourself
- Sending job listings and hearing nothing back.
- Reminding them, again, about the application that’s due.
- Bringing up money and watching the room go quiet.
- Asking “so what’s the plan?” and getting a shrug.
- Having the same conversation for the fifth time this month.
None of that means you’ve failed. Pushing harder isn’t the only option. You can reflect on your own support practices while respecting their goals and willingness.
What you’ll get
- A reflection on your current support practices and where they may be stuck.
- Topic alignment and a suggested course pathway for parents.
- Ideas for supporting growth without taking over — their willingness stays theirs.
What this is, and what it isn’t
It is
An educational questionnaire that shows which topics your answers align with and suggests a course pathway. It reflects on your support practices.
It isn’t
This is not a clinical or validated psychological assessment. It doesn’t diagnose anyone, determine what is wrong with your adult child, or guarantee independence.
Your answers are processed only in your browser. They are never stored or sent. If you or someone you love is in crisis or needs clinical care, please contact a licensed professional or local emergency services. Read our safety & course limits.
A different approach starts with seeing your own part clearly.
Take the Parent Assessment- A few minutes, self-paced
- Free. No email or account
- Answers stay in your browser